Saturday, March 23, 2019

Vacationing With TTWD Friends

A week told in snippets...........

A week with ttwd couple.......... She is not a blogger, but a faithful reader and now a close friend. Just think of that!

Spring vacation  and they arrived first.

They drove with plenty of sightseeing on the way; we flew across the country. 

They picked us up at the airport and we were on our way to the shore.

The guys had worked together to find the perfect place: beach, golf, good restaurants, a little shopping and sightseeing.

What was not programmed was the sexual, sensual energy that surrounded all four of us! You could not see it. You could not hear it. Nothing was said when all four of us were together, but it was there........ in the air. There was a sensual tension, lots of laughing and playing........ no getting around that! We played cards, watched a little tv, explored the area. The mood could not be held in your hand or captured. It was nebulous and hard to describe. I asked Jack if he felt what I felt. He said he did.

I felt the sensual energy when the four of us gathered at meal time, beach time, card playing time when we were together.

We remained very private in our respective bedrooms, but knew what might be going on in the other's room. I found it sensual. 

My friend and I walked the beach and sat on our veranda. Our talks centered on ttwd as always. The four of us set alarms to catch the sunrise. We enjoyed a carriage ride through the historic district and had wonderful drinks atop one of the restaurants. We enjoyed delicious meals at well-known restaurants and loved the warm weather that went where ever we did.

The week went way too fast and we bemoaned at how much we had looked forward to this week only to have the time slip by far too easily. 

That vague sensual feeling never left me. There was an undercurrent, a hum just below the surface. My sweet friend said she did feel that same feeling too. At the end of the week, we headed for the airport and they began the long drive home. 

Have I captured what we both felt? I think it is one of those times that being there was necessary. Words do not seem to do it here. However, that undercurrent was real and definitely there all week humming its mood setting tone. 


Friday, March 22, 2019

A #501 Roasting!

We are enjoying an early summer right here in early spring. Jack is thrilled as his days fill with golf after a hard winter here. He wakes up one happy guy and builds my agenda before I even take my head from the pillow. Errands, tasks and such are now mine due to golf, and I grow silent and grumpy as Jack gets happier and more excited about his golf day. My day has now been taken hostage. I know that I will get to my activities, but my day has been chopped in small segments. I get out of bed grumpy and quick to bite back. Jack warns me to stop making the snide remarks and then I become silent. Ugh!

In short order, that man of mine had me over the bed and he spanked long and hard as I  hope that the paddle was not coming out. Following the spanking, he cuddled up close to my backside and said he could feel the heat radiating from my bottom. The spanking turned into a wonderful lovemaking delight complete with Jack's declaration: "That just might make a great #501".  As I rubbed my bottom, he grinned at me and I knew his golf game would go quite well. Heading for the shower, he did say that my bottom was "roasting marshmallows" worthy. My bottom was toasted and smoldering. He loved the heat from his handiwork. Best of all, there was peace in his valley again. 

We enjoyed breakfast and we both talked about the way a spanking could bring about a change in attitude and some great loving. I slipped back into my role and life seems really good. 


Thursday, March 7, 2019

That Paddle And Our Journey

We have reached a place in our journey that both of us acknowledge as a big change. I crave the discipline. He likes the results and takes good care of me. It is a sweet time indeed. I am not sure why it is so difficult for me to write about spanking. After all, this is a ttwd blog. 

That leather paddle resides in Jack's sweater drawer nestled in with all that wool. It has seldom made an appearance in over a year. Now for two mornings in a row, this paddle has become the centerpiece of two big spankings. Ouch! I find it funny, not the two paddlings, mind you, but the fact that we are still learning our sixth year into ttwd. 

For quite a while, Jack has spanked with his hand...... a strong, powerful hand that can sting like fire. That paddle just remained in the drawer. 

I have not stopped thinking about both those spankings. Why? The paddle coming out is what really did it. Jack spanks and takes me to a place a little more than I can handle and then brings me up to his arms. This is not gg time, but discipline that in my heart, I do crave.  No, I am not crying when Jack brings me up, but my eyes are misty and close to tears. I feel his love on my backside. I lean into him and sigh relief that he has me and has stopped whatever has caused this paddling. 

Trying to explain this is hard. I love the gg playing, the playful swats, his hand firmly on my leg in the car, our meetups in the closet........ all of it. However, there are times I need something more and so does he. We have talked a great deal lately. I shared my thoughts with him and now with you. I simply crave the discipline, his strength and my leaning in. 

What I find impressive is that our ttwd is always changing. How about you? 


BTW, this is post # 500. How did that happen?

Tuesday, March 5, 2019

A Quote To Get You Thinking!

When a man truly loves a woman she becomes his weakness. When a woman truly loves a man he becomes her strength. This is called Exchange of Power.

The weakness referred in the quote speaks to a man's love for his woman; his giving nature to make his woman happy grows as his woman leans into his strength. So for us, he is my strength and I am his weakness........... he gives me the world! 

I began a quote collection before the internet made it so darn easy. Quotes can be delivered to your inbox daily; you can follow sites that are full of quotes. You can choose quotes about a particular theme. You can select quotes said by the famous. However, every once in a while, a quote jumps off my screen and I tuck it into my collection. I am particular as my collection is big now after a lifetime of collecting. 

When I saw this quote this morning, I thought I would share and ask for your opinion on how it sits with you. 

Do you like it? Do you agree? Is this how you define power exchange?  

Please let me know!


When a man truly loves a woman she becomes his weakness. When a woman truly loves a man he becomes her strength. This is called Exchange of Power.