Thursday, May 17, 2018

From My Jack




Jack has a habit that I like very much. When he sees something he likes online, he sends it to me. It can be a list like this or a photo or an article he thinks I need to read. He sent this little clipping awhile ago and it has been living in my many drafts ever since. 

So I am dusting it off and asking you about it. Do you agree with this itemized list? Is there one item in that list that is more important than the others? 

Meredith

22 comments:

  1. #4. #3 leads to some discord here. Ray always says I don't ask enough questions and when he continues to ask me things about which I have no idea because I didn't ask, I get annoyed. Silly but...

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    1. Leigh,
      Now you have me laughing because I can say the same thing here occasionally.
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  2. Hi Meredith, what a great list! I think they are all equally important.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Roz,
      A marriage can't survive with all of them.
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  3. Hi Meredith and Jack, nice list. They are all important. I liked number one especially!
    love Jan, xx

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  4. Hi Meredith, :) Looks like an important list that Jack sent to you! I think that all of them are a part of loving well. Many hugs,

    ❤️Katie xoxo

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  5. From Storm, "Those are all healthy. The most important one is the one that is currently most lacking."

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    1. Windy,
      That sounds just like a strong, great HoH for sure. Thanks, Storm.
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  6. Great list, and I don't see one as more important than another. It's the whole couple thing going on that is important. Thanks for sharing.

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    1. Blondie,
      I like when you wrote that "whole couple thing".
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  7. I love Jacks habit. It’s so sweet that he wants to share all the good things he finds with you.
    I agree, all the items on this list are very important and make all the difference for a happy couple. Thanks for sharing this!

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    1. Laurel,
      His habit of gathering things for me is a true gift. I know my readers will appreciate what he sends.
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  8. Hi Meredith ... I think Jack demonstrates #4 quite well by sending and sharing great little lists like this one. All the points made are important and none more than the other. ... and I'm sure there are many more one could add. ... nj ... xx

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    1. NJ,
      Indirectly, Jack has become a contributor in many ways: photos of lingerie, elephants and more. Thanks for your comment.
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  9. Hey Meredith, Eric and I have an agreement that we will never turn the other one down for sex. Certainly there are days when one or the other of us doesn't feel like being intimate but saying no to such an intimate act chips away at the partnership and can create feelings of rejection, even where there is understanding. I'm sure that's not for every couple but it's our thing. :)
    Amy

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    1. Amy,
      We have that same rule. Only illness or sleep for health gets in our way.
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  10. Mere, I also love this little list. If I had to choose just one as my favorite, it would be the questions. It always seems to demonstrate how much we value that person as a whole.

    Think I would add that a good spanking once in a while seems to put me back on the path to all the other items on this list.

    Hugs From Ella

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    1. Ella,
      You are so right. Sometimes the bottom line is a wife's bottom.
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  11. A great list I would just add one. They never go to sleep without settling any discord between them. Carrying issues overnight unresolved can only lead to unhappiness. A

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