Wednesday, October 4, 2017

"Freshly Spanked" Revisited





Blog readers are wonderful. So are bloggers who read blogs, but this post is dedicated to a reader who is like a very good friend. We have not met yet, but we surely will someday. She wrote to me having just returned from a big trip. She wrote that it is a heady experience to be mistress of her own ship. She was at the helm making all the decisions for a time without her husband. She relished all of it. 

Then her email went right to the matter at hand. She told me that she and her husband were a lot alike Jack and me. Returning from trips, getting back on track, usually necessitated a trip all its own over his knee. She wrote that her husband liked her freshly spanked, just the way Jack liked his wife. She told me that a post from 2014 is one that both she and her husband enjoyed. You can find it right here.  She told me that she can just about count on that happening and fast too when they return home either individually or together.  

I do resign myself to that way as well. If we are in a no-spanking zone like staying with friends or hotels or if one of us is away, the time we are back in one another's arms is called the "freshly spanked" period. It does smooth things out and it does get we wives back on track. 

So share your opinion with this "freshly spanked" philosophy.  Is this the way it works around your house?

Meredith 




22 comments:

  1. Matthew had a ritual when we came back together and it always involved spanking as part of it. Of course, the type of spanking depended on my behavior while we were apart. ;)

    Hugs and blessings...Cat

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    1. Cat,
      It is nice to know that a welcome home spanking occurs not just at our house. Thanks.
      Meredith

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  2. Hi Meredith, love this! There is nothing like a spanking to reset things to where we want them to be and reaffirm our individual roles, especially after being apart or in situations where spanking is out of the question.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Roz,
      I do like the word "reset".
      Thanks for stopping by.
      Meredith

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  3. We are so rarely apart we do not have a routine. However, I am venturing out for a weekend in a few weeks so I can let you know then. Personally, I'm hoping for some extra (loving) attention before I leave, as my anxiety is already on the increase just thinking about the trip (though I am also incredibly excited about it). Always love your posts M.

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    1. Deena,
      A little time away always does a marriage good. Have fun!
      Meredith

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  4. This male knows his wife loves him, even though sitting afterwards is hard and facing the wall makes one feels like a naughty little boy. Isn't Love Grand!!! Joe

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    1. Whatever melts your butter. Thanks for the comment.
      Meredith

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  5. Hi Meredith,:) I enjoyed reading both of your posts. We often have a spanking upon returning from being away, to get us back on track, and reconnect in that intimate way. Rob may have other things to say during that time, if I happened to drum up some less than submissive behavior. Usually it is just about getting us back on track, though.

    Every week, before we go out with friends, a regular event, I do get a reminder spanking to be good "before, during and after"! I have been known to show a tad bit of attitude on occasion- mostly in the car on the way home, with Rob! Oopsy! Many hugs,

    <3 Katie

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    1. Katie,
      Those before, during and after spankings make for a sore backside. These men want things smooth and they know how to achieve it. Thanks for the comment.
      Meredith

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  6. We, more or less, do the same thing. We usually call it a reminder spanking but it is meant to get the train back on track after we have not been able to be together. I have never enjoyed getting a spanking that I didn't feel I deserved but this kind is always appreciated afterwards. I love the closeness it returns to us.

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    1. Blondie,
      It is a tried and true way to smoothness. Thanks for the comment.
      Meredith

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  7. We travel a great deal together and separately, but have not as yet had a "return to home" event as it were, but it could happen. Trips tend to make me pretty mellow and happy and I gladly let him handle travel details so not much tension associated with it.
    Mignon

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    1. Mignon,
      We find that disrupting the normal way things are done creates the need to get back to the way things work once home.
      Thanks for the comment.
      Meredith

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  8. I remember this post very well. It is definitely like that for Sam and me, especially because I am the one that enjoys making the travel plans. Sam would much rather I take care of that, but it makes me sound like the tour director at times and probably a bit bossy.

    Along with the huge pile of laundry and jet lag recovery, a "we're home now, Ella" spanking is pretty much a given.

    Hugs From Ella

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    1. Ella,
      Oh, yes......... the "welcome home" spanking is alive and well here too. Thanks for stopping by.
      Meredith

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  9. Like Jack, Harry prefers a calm and settled wife and the best way to achieve that is to keep her freshly spanked. Any event that's likely to be stressful will herald a pre-emptive spanking. This is particularly so in the run-up to holidays, especially those that involve flying. Airports are dicey places for me!
    Our homecoming always involves a spanking. Whether it's a simple reconnection or a full-blown reset depends whether there are issues to address from the holiday. Either way my equilibrium is restored and peace and harmony are assured.
    Rosie xx

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    1. Rosie,
      Airports are the worst and guarantees a reset. These men want peace restored NOW. Thanks for stopping by.
      Meredith

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  10. I loved the original post, and this little reminder one is just as good.
    Yes, we share the same ‘freshly spanked’ philosophy. It’s just how things are done here because it works so well in keeping things smooth, and when it works you don’t change things.

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    1. Laurel,
      You are so right.... when it works so well, why would anyone change it!!! I like "its just the way things are". Thanks for the comment.
      Meredith

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  11. nope not here...but just wanted to say hi :-)

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  12. I don't always get spanked when BIKSS visits, but you can count on a spanking whenever he visits after having been away. So i guess it happens for us too! Thanks for this topic :)

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