I did not bring my laptop. Hard to believe........ I know. I did bring my small iPad which holds all my books and my large iPad. We leave tomorrow for home. We are flying this time and I decided to attempt a post even though blogger and iPads do not get along as a rule. At least I can get started. Right?
I was asked great questions and here come the answers in a series of posts. Katie is first up.
Katie wants to know what behaviors ttwd brought out and how have I improved those behaviors? She also wants to know my favorite ttwd memory.
Katie, I did much soul searching when we began ttwd. I cringed when I saw myself being so bossy and controlling. I did not like what I saw. I could hear myself being unkind and disrespectful to the best man in the world and I would see the way it made him feel. I felt awful. We decided that those behaviors would be tackled first. I worked on stopping the commands and disrespect. I certainly had help with that as Jack took to spanking with the greatest of ease. He never gave me more than I could handle, with a little more to help me get the message. Inch by inch, or spank by spank, I learned to step back and follow this highly capable husband. Yes, there are setbacks, but my behavior has really changed. I lean into what he asks and support his decisions after we talk things over. He likes what he sees and his praise is wonderful. I am a more careful listener and I choose to please him as he pleases me. He has peace in that valley of his.
There have been several "doozy" spankings, and some very fun, sexy ones. However, when I hear the words favorite ttwd memory, I think of the ttwd women I have met. I have met both bloggers and readers. I have had both bloggers and readers to my home. I have been to their homes. I have vacationed with both bloggers and readers and treasure every single moment. These women and a few of their husbands are very important to me. The memory of those meetings is to be cherished.