Monday, May 30, 2016

My Spank-Happy Hubby

We are entering our fourth summer of ttwd. This thing we do is interwoven into how we live from sensual times to getting back to Jack's peace. It is what we do. To say it is not a big deal is like saying that sex is not a big deal. Ttwd is right there providing a structure to how we relate with love and respect to one another. 

I have just returned from a very short time away. I missed Jack, but that man really missed me. All seemed to be smooth and sweet. However for the past two days, this man is Mr. Spanko. We are touching, laughing and not sticking to things at hand as we simply play. I told him to take a shower to cool off and the next thing I knew, we were in the shower together laughing. We are not kids, but do not tell him that. He is all over me spanking and spanking again..... mostly in fun and always with love. He is edgy and ready to spank at every turn.

It is as though I were wearing a little shirt like this one. So my brain is wondering just what is going here at the very time, my hubby is spanking away throughout the day. So I am asking the question:

  • Does your Hoh become edgy when he hasn't spanked? 

  • Does your guy ever get spank-happy? 

  • What do you do when this happens? 

Thanks, L.


  1. LOL Mere...Matthew and I spent a lot of time apart and when we got together, he always found a reason to spank. I do believe Jack has the same thing I used to accuse Matthew of having...itchy palm syndrome. ;) Sounds like you two are doing very well.

    Hugs and blessings...Cat

  2. Hi Meredith, Yes he does get spank happy. When life is treating us both well I find he swats at every opportunity! It is a being happy thing round here I guess
    love Jan, xx

  3. Hi Meredith, sounds like you two are having lots of fun. Fun spankings are the best :) Rick used to get spank happy too. Actually, just lately he seems to have regained some of the urge to spank lol


  4. Meredith,
    The answers over here are yes; yes; enjoy it!

  5. Lovely that Jack missed you so much, Meredith. And his hand on your bottom says he is glad to have you home.

    Unfortunatly Sam is not very spank-happy, especially lately. I have often told him that a spanking is my favorite way to hear him say I love you. I think I need to pray to Saint Azotaina!


  6. I have to agree with Ella. Sounds as though you were very much missed by Jack and he is reconnecting in every way possible. Those fun spankings are yummy aren't they? I now think our men do get edgy when they haven't spanked in awhile. It's like they too, get out of sync. As hubby is healing from an injury, spankings have been infrequent but he sure speaks of them frequently and works on ways to devise a plan so he still can do so without hurting himself!! As for me? I just go with the flow as it reminds me this connection remains important to him as well. Enjoy this time Meredith. Many couples don't have it this good and that is sad.

  7. I'm not sure if Dragon gets on edge because he hasn't spanked me or if he doesn't spank because he is on edge. Hard to tell sometimes.

    He was very spank happy just before my trip. I left home May 5th and it sounds like he is more than ready to blister my backside.

    Enjoy it. Most spankings are for pleasure but I do enjoy the after effects of a punishment too.

  8. You are a lucky lady Meredith. My guy misses it if it can't be done and always reverts to quick spanks here and there whenever we're about. If it hasn't happened in awhile then yes I think he gets a little edgy or spank-happy. When you're used to having it regularly its tricky when it's not around. Enjoy your enthusiastic man, and the fact that they are all fun and loving spanks is just icing on the cake!

  9. though this does not happen here...I would feel very gracious if it did... :-) Hugs

  10. Meredith you are so lucky and your Jack certainly missed you terribly. bear does get spank happy at times, not always though. I love it when he's like that. enjoy it whilst it lasts.
    Hugs Lindy

  11. Sweet Meredith, it is so sweet!
    Sometimes my Scotsman is spank happy, and other times not as much!

  12. I had to smile remembering my dad swatting my moms tush often. She'd say "George, the children" and they'd both laugh.

    I come by my kink honestly. 😀

  13. My husband definitely gets spank happy. I just enjoy it since they are not punishment spankings.

  14. YES to the first 2 questions for sure. The third one? I am ready to do whatever I'm told. Oh...and I melt!!

  15. Hi Meredith,

    My answers are yes, definitely, and I go with it. It hurts soooo good.


  16. Great post, Meredith! :) Jack sure seemed to make up for your days away!

    My answers are: Yes X 3! :) In general, Rob seems to enjoy spanking the bottom of yours truly on most occasions! He especially loves to deliver those little fun swats throughout the day. We had company this past weekend. As soon as the house was quiet again, he gave me a little swat and announced something like, "Now! Back to "business as usual". He had a huge grin on his face. Funny thing... I am sitting on a freshly spanked bottom as I type! HA! Many hugs,

    <3 Katie