Wednesday, May 4, 2016
Have You Ever ..............................
Have you ever talked before a spanking....... yes, we all do this!
Have you ever talked after a spanking......... yes, we all do this!
Have you ever talked during a spanking.......... yes, mostly just Jack as I work on trying to get through the spanking
How about talking to get out of a spanking? Does that work for you?
Every wife knows how this goes. Jack talks before a spanking. He talks during a spanking. He talks after a spanking. However, how about talking about getting out of a spanking?
We have had that discussion a few times in the last few days. I asked Jack if he remembers a time I had talked him out of a spanking. He said no because once he has made that decision to spank, there is no turning back. I have talked fast and hard in an attempt to stop the quick walk upstairs or the way Jack can and does undress me in a lightning fast way. Sometimes we talk for awhile......... I am leaning against our bed, ready to be spanked, still talking dressed in a camisole and panties. He is sitting across from me on the leather bench, holding the leather paddle, smiling, nodding at what is coming out of my mouth. He says something about the talking now needing to stop. He has decided what to do and no more words are needed from me.
The time for talking, as in talking my way out of a spanking, would have to happen way before this point. Fully clothed, downstairs, with a glass of wine and some music playing as we discuss our day. Things move upstairs so very quickly, too quickly.
How do you turn things around when your hoh says he is spanking? What are the magic words that will ease the tension in a situation that is about to go south in a hurry? An apology is fine, but it doesn't stop the spanking. A promise to do better is welcomed, but doesn't stop the spanking. Trying to be sexy and cute doesn't work ever and doesn't stop a spanking. What do you do that will absolutely stop the spanking? Do tell.