Long time married, we add a new twist. We are following a new Ttwd lifestyle and are amazed how our marriage is better after all these years.
This is so true. The talk is essential, spank or no spank.
Got that right Jack...there were times that Matthew had me in tears just from the butt chewing he gave...unfortunately, he usually followed it up with a spanking. ;)Hugs and blessings...Cat
It seems to me, Jack, that you do not show mercy to your wife very often. I am reminded of something I learned as a youngster- "If you win all the time, no one will want to play with you."I hope that your making up with Meredith includes more than just "talk." Flowers or jewelry might be a good start.
The talk certainly does make a difference. sometimes I think I would prefer more spanking and less talking though. ;-)
So true Jack, talking is essential.Hugs Roz
Jack, it is good hearing from you,,take very good care of our Mere. or you will be hearing from us.. More talk and less spank,,her bottom needs a rest. : - )L.
But may I also say,,you must be a good guy for Mere to love you like she does.: - )L.
Yes, Jack, but it is the spank that makes me listen to the talk.Ella
You two seem so connected that I bet that is the case. For us.... It's different. He just spanks when the moment inspires or he reacts. I just have a mood improvement.... Usually!
Love it, Jack. Just send Dan a reminder will you? He spends so much of the warm up playing "Guess the tune" that I just plain give up! Must be nice to listen to a little homily.... (Can you tell I'm sparky? LOL!)HugsAmi
Definitely true. I love how the right words in the right moment can bring lovers closer. Thank you for sharing.hugsNina
Jack, it's great to see you again here. That is exactly what we've been experiencing this weekend. And then sometimes it's the spank that helps my listening skills. Hugs to you and Mere.SSB
I agree. Just the act of submitting and lying over his lap is sometimes all that is needed to get to the good talking that only happens there it seems.
I think the combo of the talk and the spanking that does wonders! ~ Jennifer
So very true, the talk makes all the difference!
Jack.... You always make your expectations well known. I see the love between you and Meredith. Even if you have to spank her bottom to capture her attention, she knows you do so out of love. Unfortunately for me, I often have t be over my hubby's lap on the receiving end of a painful conversation in order to get his message. It's a big responsibility you HOH's have. I know Meredith respects your leadership,
Very eloquently said and so true. I don't know why but your words kind of made me tear up and get a lump in my throat. When Ty spanks me but also talks to me, encouraging me and letting me feel safe, the spankings are, I don't know how to describe it. It sounds like you and Ty have "that talk" in common. And I just love him more for it. You and Meredith are good together.