A index finger with a red ribbon tied on it above the knuckle! Does that remind you of your most memorable spanking? I did't think so, but I could not find a photo of a bare bottom tied with a ribbon. I just could not ask my loyal assistant to search for something that silly!
The symbol above is to help you all remember your most memorable spanking. When we began our journey, I called what we did DD. The punishment angle was not to our liking. I am not a child and we believe punishments are for naughty children and criminals. We eased our way right into the world of ttwd. No more DD! We found intimacy, trust, leading and submission. We found good girl spankings and role affirmation spankings. Yes, we found discipline spankings too, but they became less frequent and that was a good thing. Jack calls discipline spankings his backup plan. Our ttwd has changed evolving into real harmony. I love watching the change in Jack. He is so confident and assured. He really always was, but I did not give him opportunity when I fought for control. Things are smooth, but we know the bumps do come. Ttwd is such an important part of who we are now. Ttwd has rekindled an intimacy we thought was gone, but it is alive in us. That really is the best part!
So I challenge all of you to share a memorable spanking. How did things go for the two of you?
I have three memorable spankings to share.
Spanking #1: The very first spanking was awkward. Everybody says that about their first. Jack knew what he was doing. His wife was nervous and unsure if doing this would help our marriage. As he began, I did wonder what in the world I have gotten myself into. He used the wooden spoon he had purchased and the spanking was short and to the point. The twilight summer evening brought us outside afterwards and I cried then in his arms. I was so emotional and just melted. I have posted about it very early in my blog here .
Spanking #2: Jack knew I dreamed about being spanked outdoors, but I wanted assurances that we would have privacy. I put my faith in my man to find just the right place and time and he did just that. On a windy road in California wine country, he pulled the car over in a big turnout area. How did he know about this secluded place? He made short order of coming around the car, opening my passenger door, pulling me to my feet, turning me around, bending me over, baring my tush and spanking. I was so hot and bothered. My bottom was on fire, but all I wanted was him. After the spanking, we continued into Napa Valley lunching at a vineyard restaurant. I think about that spanking all the time. You can read about it here.
Spanking #3: Within our definition of ttwd, there are those times when discipline spankings happen. These are not frequent, but if I am honest, Jack is quick to step up and do what needs doing to get us on track. He never hesitates or second guesses. He spanks. I am working seriously on one area in particular. Jack will not tolerate my pulling away. Call it giving him the cold shoulder, the silent treatment, or my one word answers. If I try any of that, I am over the bed in a heartbeat. I am trying to learn to not distance myself because I know he will not hesitate. That kind of behavior is just plain not allowed and it is a most spankable offense. In a hot minute, he spanks this behavior away and we start again. Here is one post about distancing here .
So now you have the floor. In the comment section, please share about a spanking that is always right there in your memory. Good girl, erotic, role affirmation, lesson learned, discipline.......... you decide.
I look forward to reading your memories.