Friday, August 8, 2014
The truth is........ we do dd sometimes............... It happens! We call it situational dd. Behind the blog, I write to my friends and bemoan when this happens. One of those dear friends coined a term for it. She and her hubby refer to it as situational dd. Situational dd happens seldom here, but it does happen. Since we began ttwd/dd over a year ago, Jack has commented on how calm I am. He appreciates how I speak respectfully. I am not disagreeable. He likes the way I listen to him. Life here is easy and we have learned how to deal with the bumps......... situational dd.
Jack keeps the peace and things are usually very smooth around here. I enjoy and take pleasure in pleasing him. He keeps me happy and satisfied in many ways. However, sometimes we have bumpy patches and Jack is quick to set things right. We call those times our situational dd episodes. I shy away from sharing those times as I want privacy here on a ttwd/dd blog. Sounds funny, right?
Coming home real grumpy from errands and talking back in a rude way, ............... spanked, situational dd
No gossip rule is in place and Jack has used his hand to reinforce the rule..... spanked, situational dd
Curing my bad habit of interrupting............ spanked, situational dd
Distancing when we are discussing something and things escalated............ spanked, situational dd
Pulling back from working as a team with Jack because I am upset........ distancing and frustrating my husband ............ spanked, situational dd
You get the idea. It doesn't happen often. For the most part, we enjoy good girl spankings, role affirmation and all that goes with those loving times including Jack's loving boot camp. Even a smooth time can be occasionally interrupted by the need for situational dd. Jack, my peace keeper, loves his motto: Lean in or lean over. As seldom as situational dd happens, we both know it is right there.