Friday, September 6, 2013

Meredith's Words of Wisdom

I will be away from blogland for a couple of weeks. I will miss all of you and look forward to catching up upon my return. Take care,

I have learned many things since we began this journey. I thought I would share a few of the things I think are mot important.

The connection I feel with my husband is amazing. When I am spanked, I feel loved, protected and loved every single time.

I know my opinion counts and my point of view valued.

I know that arguing beyond reason ends with a spanking.

I know that Jack is becoming a spanko. He talks, acts and does not hesitate when a spanking is needed.

I know that Jack likes the benefits of spanking me.

When I am being spanked, I am thinking about how much that paddle stings and when the spanking will be over.

Before and after the spanking, I crave his touch, strength, gentleness.

I am learning that bossiness leads quickly to a spanking.

During the spanking. I think I should have my head examined right after my rear is examined.

I know that Jack always follows through. If a spanking is needed, then a spanking happens.

I know there are never any negotiations ever.

After a spanking, I feel just two things: on fire butt and overwhelming love for my husband

Jack will not take any guff or backtalk from me.

I know that "the edge" refers to the point at which a spanking has been earned.

I know that our marriage is smoother and happier since the day we began domestic discipline.

I know that the closet is a fun place for a spanking and a very serious place for a spanking.

I know that Jack could easily be nominated for the most consistent HoH in all of DD country.

I know that I love my Jack and feel safe that he is in charge.

Jack is the boss and I am not the boss.

Jack likes to fix things including me.

Keeping my tone respectful in a discussion means Jack is listening to me.

I know that we are beginning to see the benefits of DD and celebrate the way it is working for us.

I am the happiest I have ever been and Jack feels the same way.


  1. Great words of wisdom.
    See you in a couple of weeks.
    Take care of yourself

  2. Good for you and enjoy your time away.

  3. I love all that you've learned Mere, but I practically have tears in my eyes and a huge smile on my face when I read your last sentence. I'm really happy for you.

    Enjoy your 2 weeks away! We'll miss you but look forward to welcoming you back.


  4. It's amazing how much we learn, even if we have been with them for years.

    Enjoy your two weeks away!

  5. I think you're doing absolutely amazing! I'm so happy for you, and I hope you have a wonderful trip.

  6. Hi Meredith, I loved your post. I hope you have a lovely holiday. Be warned it is raining here, bring your brolly
    love Jan.xx

  7. I. Love. This. Post!!! You and Jack are amazing!!

    Can't wait for you to get back.


  8. These thoughts are magical :) thanks for sharing!!


  9. LOVED this one! "Keeping my tone respectful in a discussion means Jack is listening to me." How often we forget, and our voices rise, and become disrespectful, and so then our husbands are no longer listening to our words, but our tone. What a great lesson, it's one I'll have to think about. :) I'm not often disrespectful, but I think the times I need him to listen most and I'm most upset, I might be... I love the rest of your list too. :) I hope you have a WONDEFUL time away. :)